Men lie Women lie

  Men lie and Women lie

   I would like to leave men and women off the hook but that is just not possible. Ooh how I know that they want so much, deep in their hearts to not lie and do right, but  I also know the world we live in today has us all scrambling around keeping our feelings submerged, attached to our phones, lost in cyberspace, and doing our own thing. That's the way it is; so in return we are not processing our feelings and doing what is easy and wrong. Now I know you're wondering how the two correlate to one another but hear me out and let's be completely honest men lie women lie and it's not getting any better. 

       95% of men and women today are living for themselves - what they want in their hearts. This might be because they lost hope for anything more out of someone like honesty, loyalty, mutual respect, and finding love and marriage before a one night stand. Now if I'm losing my audience and a cold shoulder has gone up, still, it will get better.

        Women.

Those pants  you decided to put on or that dress-now you know God would not approve of you wearing it out in public.  Are you looking for attention, are you looking for a mate? You are revealing what is supposed to be kept secret and hidden for yourself and yourself aka (your partner). Not for you and your partner in public, and then saying  “who cares what anyone thinks”. You want to know why you have to care what others think? It is because your energy that you are putting to the world is embraced by the world- no matter what. Single or not. You're setting an example in any situation you put yourself into. It  doesn't matter who you are. 

       A woman who is neatly dressed and no one has seen her “goods” (including the shape of herself or the fact that she doesn't apply makeup to  attract attention- because that's what it is for)  rather she stands her ground in today's world and moves how God asks her to be.  You think because she is not drawing attention to herself by the world's standard she is not setting an example or getting noticed? That no one cares about her because she is doing the right thing and has decided to not get attention but means of her outward appearance.  

      1 Timothy 2:9-10 “women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self control not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire.”  This verse is stating that if we so choose to promote these upon ourselves then we are opening the door to sexual sin, conceited self, appearance based approval. You have to understand what it does to everyone around including yourself- the message it sends. So if you are sending that message to men then men are going to start viewing women as objects, not equal. And worse, men are going to act accordingly to women. They will  feel they do not need to show the ways a woman deserves and needs to be shown, at all times. This is because of the way the women are being- being meaning  who they are being. SO in other words if you really are not the way you portray yourself to look then it doesn't matter because then you would have to prove you are not like that when your showing something else, and I get it a lot of women are not who they appear but you have to walk it and talk it, if not you a part of the problem and you could wind up becoming how they view you (hint-women lie).

  Men.

    However a woman carries herself-  you have a responsibility to uplift women and be a good man; not encourage wrong doing because every man is in a leadership role.  You want a woman to not lie, to be faithful and true, yet you don't want that for yourself? You want the woman to be the best she can be while you do not want the best for yourself? Think about it, to be a solid good individual, shouldn't you be all around the same, not pick and choose who you will lie to, who you will be faithful to ,who you will give loyalty to? You should just be that.  And saying “oh well I'm honest that I’m no good of a man” - if you are saying this you're making an excuse and that you are equipped to lead someone to the serpent( to invite sin in)- which leads to destruction and pain and loss, you should not want this.  

      Men are not supposed to have it easy, yet they want things easy. How are you supposed to learn anything when things are easy? Men need  to do what it takes to be the men they need to be.  God tells Adam that the ground is cursed because of his disobedience, requiring painful toil, sweat, and hardship to yield food, and that he will return to dust. (taken from google)  Genesis 3:17-19 , “Because you have listened to the voice of your wife and have eaten from the tree of which I commanded you not to eat, cursed is the ground because of you; through toil you will eat of it all the days of your life.  If you take the easy way out it's not going to be any better for you, that you are making things worse and learning nothing. That it's going to be difficult to do the right thing but if you do it will make you better. God would not place a curse if it was to keep you in a circle forever and not to learn from it. 

     So God stripped man and woman from the level of God-ship- as in (made in his image) to now to die; you have to remember we never died before sin came into the world through Adam. So men need to accept the curse in totality and truly be able to get back to the state of Eden. If not then you just circle around not going anywhere and actually making the world worse. And every standard for women applies to men too. If not think about- too much salt to chicken won't turn out right, a heavy person to a small person on a seesaw would cause it to be unleveled and so on and so forth. 

        Men and Women seem to be getting equal for sure, but unfortunately they each build their houses on the wind and not with God.